“To defeat Fortune, men must anticipate such evils before they arise, and take prudent steps to avoid them. When the waters have already risen, it is too late to build dikes and embankments.”-- Niccolò Machiavelli, The Prince
A wise man attacks the problem. A narcissist attacks the questioner. Thank you for clarification on what you are.
There's a huge difference between a child who has absolutely no chance of ever fighting back and a WOMAN, who might.I ask this of all of you who advocate this view: would you give the same advice to your sons facing the same situation? Would you put a bullet in your own head if YOU were?