"Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise. Without having any chief, officer, or ruler, she prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest."-- Proverbs 6:6-8
A wise man attacks the problem. A narcissist attacks the questioner. Thank you for clarification on what you are.
There's a huge difference between a child who has absolutely no chance of ever fighting back and a WOMAN, who might.I ask this of all of you who advocate this view: would you give the same advice to your sons facing the same situation? Would you put a bullet in your own head if YOU were?